Candace van Dell
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Love Bond & Discard 101 (Part 1)
am I being love bombed? why do they discard? Is this narcissistic?
Love Bomb & Discard 101 (Part 1)
Why do they love bomb and then suddenly discard? What did I do wrong? What happened? In this video I will explain all from start to finish.
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Stop Creating Your Own Pain
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How to stop the pain, How do I deal with emotional pain, healing emotional pain Stop Creating Your Own pain WORK WITH CANDACE!!! (((JOIN))) TRUTH ROOM MEMBERSHIP 2 WEEKS FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JOIN MY COMMUNITY OF AWAKENING SOULS FROM AROUND THE WORLD. 4.5 YEARS OF MEDITATIONS, LIVE CALLS, SPIRITUAL TOOLS AND EXERCISES AND LIVE CALLS EACH WEEK! EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS OF COACHING & ALL COURSES!! Trut...
Trauma Bonded to your Ego?
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Trauma Bonded to your Ego?
The Narcissistic Collapse
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The Narcissistic Collapse
Is this a Spiritual Awakening or Spiritual Bypass?
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Is this a Spiritual Awakening or Spiritual Bypass?
EMOTIONAL NEGLECT causes self blame & doubt
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The Scapegoat's Existential Crisis
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The Scapegoat's Existential Crisis
HEALING to fit back into the toxic family?
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Take off the TRAUMA GOGGLES
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3 Ways to unlock your soul purpose
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3 Ways to unlock your soul purpose
YOUR OBSESSIVE THOUGHTS ARE CAUSED BY ABANDONMENT WOUNDS
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YOUR OBSESSIVE THOUGHTS ARE CAUSED BY ABANDONMENT WOUNDS
The Unhealed Empath & Discard
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The Unhealed Empath & Discard
How to find your purpose: Ego Career vs Divine Calling
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How To Jump Timelines
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How To Jump Timelines
FEEL DIFFERENT? You are ahead of your time!
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FEEL DIFFERENT? You are ahead of your time!
Are Narcissists Created?
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Are Narcissists Created?
Healing the Brain after Trauma
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Healing the Brain after Trauma
AUTHENTIC SELF - How To Reconnect
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AUTHENTIC SELF - How To Reconnect
The SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVE on EATING DISORDERS
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The SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVE on EATING DISORDERS
How the Narcissist Obliterates your sense of SELF
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How the Narcissist Obliterates your sense of SELF
SPIRITUAL DEFINITION of your Diagnosis
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Siblings in a Narcissistic Dynamic
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Symptoms of Trauma or Disorder?
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MY AUTHENTIC SELF GETS ME REJECTED
WHY Highly Sensitive People turn off feeling
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WHY Highly Sensitive People turn off feeling
The Missing Piece to your Awakening
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The Narcissist Is Your SAVIOR
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The Narcissist Is Your SAVIOR
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The Incubation Phase
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How To SELF SOOTHE

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @annaframeworktwo1288
    @annaframeworktwo1288 День тому

    Thank you.

  • @ChristianMichelleKeyJohnston

    This is such a great message accurate as always Candace thank you!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell 2 дні тому

      @@ChristianMichelleKeyJohnston it is always my pleasure 😇

  • @hovissexual
    @hovissexual 2 дні тому

    I been love bombed when I met a woman once I didn't flirt or anything... she asked me to do some art for her but I seen in her eyes she was psycho and she was dating a gangster so I said no... she went behind my back I understand thats to learn how to manipulate someone and she thought she could... so obviously love bomb me because i never been loved by my family.... so other red flag and had sex with everyone to manipulate family and friends i could tell am psychic I find out stuff that's why my best mate says am psychic becausei dont need anyone... I believe am psychic because God knows I deserve the truth 😅but it's a process to get there... krs one a hiphop artist says the truth is inconvenient but the truth is never late... the psycho is my bros girlfriend friend and there blind even they can see her using a psychopathic narcissist psychology... she was vulnerable... she went psycho to me over nothing what more can be more obvious... she will end up in jail 💯 just because I won't become the predator society has treated me and family so society says I think am perfect because I won't be a wronging a predator...

  • @mathews0618
    @mathews0618 4 дні тому

    They obviously dont care about you. Thats a tough one to accept. Especially at the end when you are sad and anxious and they couldn't care less

  • @The_Stockfather
    @The_Stockfather 4 дні тому

    By the time I realized the situation, I’m in a position I’m unlikely to recover from.

  • @Hauseofmars
    @Hauseofmars 6 днів тому

    13:25 true to self 🌺❤️‍🩹

  • @emilysnyder4857
    @emilysnyder4857 6 днів тому

    Thank you for seeing me!

  • @nicoletherez5272
    @nicoletherez5272 6 днів тому

    Back for another recap ❤

  • @robertkrzeminski1206
    @robertkrzeminski1206 7 днів тому

    It is painful to have this ability to tune in to others feelings and not to be able to share this.people think your crazy .the word thrown at me all the time is projecting ....

  • @PatricKovac
    @PatricKovac 7 днів тому

    Huge Candace. thankyou !

  • @PatricKovac
    @PatricKovac 7 днів тому

    Candace.. This is huge, Thankyou !

  • @lauriebailey9299
    @lauriebailey9299 10 днів тому

    Artist for sure 😊

  • @keldub7123
    @keldub7123 10 днів тому

    Your content resonates so much. I love the way you articulate your messages. When is the next emotional rehab 12 week course due to start please?

  • @kangkudi313
    @kangkudi313 11 днів тому

    Theres no message as a message at all

  • @Conscious58
    @Conscious58 12 днів тому

    God bless you Candace for sharing your wisdom with the rest of us who also were deeply impacted by the Mother Wound! Profound & Wise Words!

  • @larsstougaard7097
    @larsstougaard7097 12 днів тому

    Well said have struggled a lot with this too and didn't why I attracted so much negative

  • @johndtwaldron
    @johndtwaldron 12 днів тому

    We have to be so vigilant not to fall back into old ways. So on the money Candace. Never abandoning myself for anyone else ever again.

  • @Skattie
    @Skattie 13 днів тому

    Omg, my mother worked my state non stop when i was young, she and my grandmother called it breeding

  • @Skattie
    @Skattie 13 днів тому

    Hi, my guru says there is no such thing as self esteem (maybe we think egotistic )

  • @ErinT80
    @ErinT80 14 днів тому

    I love my family, always will, but I’ve always felt like the odd man out. I’m 44 and it’s time I stop being so scared and take the leap and distance myself in the most healthiest way possible. I love them, but I need to love me more.

  • @nikolosvahoang9603
    @nikolosvahoang9603 14 днів тому

    truly amazing! thank you Candace

  • @eternal_ks
    @eternal_ks 15 днів тому

    You are amazing , you get it all . I hope I’ll have good finances to get your courses ❤❤❤❤

  • @dorianowen7852
    @dorianowen7852 15 днів тому

    My parent were highly sensitive it was a paternity in my family.

  • @antjestr1047
    @antjestr1047 15 днів тому

    I think God wants me to suffer in this lifetime...suffering in childhood, not able to find a good partner or friends or being a parent....things that are normal for most people, things that even evil people get so easily.... I feel so unloved (even by God) its UNFAIR, I always been a good & friendly person since I was a little child

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell 15 днів тому

      Well God doesn’t want suffering so I would look at your belief system and the evidence you find to support that mirror

  • @JosephFrisk
    @JosephFrisk 15 днів тому

    Hey! You only have coaching programs? Tried contacting you on your website but wouldn’t let me proceed cuz I had a Swedish number

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell 15 днів тому

      Put in your email and will be fine! Or email me candacevandell@gmail.com

  • @user-qh8lb2cv8d
    @user-qh8lb2cv8d 15 днів тому

    I'm the scapegoat and my older brother is this golden he abused me for many years physically he is a control freak insecure bitch who hated me being authentic and always created fights involving our father the narc to show him that I'm a bad girl I need to behave ..... I dont know how I will ever be capable of forgiving him for this Ive spent many years attracting more bullshit scenarios , losing jobs , losing myself and sanity still trapped in family home while he got his phd, immigrated to a country of his choice, got himself a passport , celebrating achivmenets but I'm the only one who knows that he will never ever be truly happy and that he is a insecure BITCH

  • @user-qh8lb2cv8d
    @user-qh8lb2cv8d 15 днів тому

    omg posted 6 years well I found out / realized about it today 19/6/2024 at 27 and Ive none your channel for 4 years :(

  • @SUPERxPURPLE
    @SUPERxPURPLE 17 днів тому

    Wow you just gave me an “aha” moment! Thank you! 🙏 ❤ I would love to join your group!😊

  • @Amarideout
    @Amarideout 17 днів тому

    BEST🎉Thank you!

  • @SUPERxPURPLE
    @SUPERxPURPLE 17 днів тому

  • @jimnicosia5934
    @jimnicosia5934 17 днів тому

    222.😊

  • @PoonamSharma-sh8kn
    @PoonamSharma-sh8kn 17 днів тому

    This turned out to be super stressful and traumatic because it wasn't well paced. I have never felt so much stress after doing an eft tapping but I felt when I tried to match the pace and do it with this one. Please speak slowly and pause so that people can catch up. Otherwise this is pointless

  • @alexiakawa5040
    @alexiakawa5040 17 днів тому

    Where did you study spiritual psychology?

  • @donnarakitzis2719
    @donnarakitzis2719 17 днів тому

    Powerful

  • @donnarakitzis2719
    @donnarakitzis2719 17 днів тому

    Power

  • @lily.810
    @lily.810 18 днів тому

    what if when you look into your own eyes in the mirror and you noticed your thoughts "nothingness, blank" (in a nt gd way?)... or your eyes look at your flaws or what you dislike in the mirror next? (eyes going all over except into the eyes. if come back to the eyes it's the same thought. I know it in theory "it's just a thought" how does one soothe oneself at this point spiritually when you have emotionally unavailable parents?

  • @alovespecialist
    @alovespecialist 18 днів тому

    WHOA GIRL YOU ARE A CHAMPIONNNNNN🎉

  • @amanece777
    @amanece777 18 днів тому

    Que guapa eres😊

  • @laurabfromvt6197
    @laurabfromvt6197 19 днів тому

    This is exactly it. I could never understand that the very few times when I was really upset about a situation, instead of understanding and support I would get yelled at or told I needed to see a therapist. The other thing is that even when you are "perfect", always in control and never needing anything from them, you still aren't getting love. You just convince yourself that it's love because you have been conditioned to not expect much and you don't know what real love looks like. Omg, I've been free for 6 years after a 41 year marriage!

  • @tragori
    @tragori 19 днів тому

    +

  • @peaceinapod1
    @peaceinapod1 19 днів тому

    That's so true!

  • @divinadivina2017
    @divinadivina2017 19 днів тому

    Gonna use this example someone gave "people invalidating us is like telling someone with cancer or that is dying 'you should be happy. There are people out there worse than you'". People do not realize this is what they are doing and why it hurts. We're not being too sensitive or we're not making a big deal out of it. It's just that you dont realize you're being harsh, cruel and if we were in opposite shoes, you'd feel exactly like me you know...

  • @culturedancer
    @culturedancer 19 днів тому

    Yea!! Being paid to be myself. True. Love this! ❤️

  • @laurabfromvt6197
    @laurabfromvt6197 19 днів тому

    Wow! There are many nuggets of wisdom in this short. 1. Criticizers are thinking more about themselves than you. 2. Those who need to hear the message are the ones who matter. 3. Our purpose is to be vessels to share wisdom and support others.

  • @TracemyShadow77
    @TracemyShadow77 19 днів тому

    Have you read or listened to neville goddard books/lectures ?